Have you ever asked yourself this question “WHAT IF I AM WRONG”.

Have you heard some people make statements like “ i have a mind of my own”, “i don’t give in to peer pressure”, “I have bad friends as close friends but i’m not like them”. These statements are…


The average Nigerian youth is plague with the national mal-function of the system by default as some people often say ‘if you survive staying in Nigeria, then you can survive anywhere in the world’. …


People always find a way to hide under a lie, and the devil is the father of lies — John 8:44
However, It does not have to be so. …


Sometimes we really wish we can run out of our body and take a one month vacay from ourselves and experiences. We often feel like we probably missed the orientation of what and how life is supposed to be, I know a lot of us can relate especially when it…


Music is seen as a tool for psychological and societal reform, and a food for the soul. Music has no doubt evolved into something big and profitable in these time, no doubt the recent rise in remaking and covers of songs. According to wikipedia, ‘a cover version, remake, cover song…


After my NYSC program, i came back to Benin city where i was born and breed, not to stay but to restock and relocate to a state of greener technological pasture, Lagos or Abuja were on top of my list because my thirst and passion for tech would only be…


Many people believe this is the craziest year we have had, and to think that it is the beginning of another decade is just more shocking, From the global pandemic to escalated racial war, to scares of WW3 and now we are having our women being raped. I’ll try not…


We’re losing the Art called MUSIC!!!

When the purpose of a thing is mismanaged, misplaced priority becomes the head of the pack, this statement holds true for every situation and circumstances. …


Recently people have turned themselves to depression agents, People now talk other people into depression and low self esteem, how can you see someone and all you have to say is “ you now look too fat”, what is your business biko? of all the amazing things about that person…


This will be a very short read. People suffer mostly from their own expectations, we always expect too much from people, from results , from methods etc. Everyone should of course have some sort of reliability on their methods, but remember ‘nobody owes you anything’. There is something called entitlement mentality, this is the mindset that you deserve a place in peoples life and actions. Nobody owes you anything, just pick yourself up and live you best life, mind you, this is not going around with trust issues, no it is trusting and still not entitled. Live your best life, love, learn and be great, humans are fickle. Expect the best, but remember this “nobody owes you anything”, this will keep you safe.

Teddy Eragbai

Data Scientist, Digital Marketer, Music instructor, Recording Pianist, Creative Writer

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